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Presiding over every wolf pack there is a leader, or Alpha-wolf, which
keeps order within the pack. This wolf informs other wolves about their
status on a particular day -- about how well they are doing, and about how
poorly they are doing. Depending on the Alpha's style of leadership, the
role might be that of a dictator or a guide, or the Alpha might adopt
either of these roles at different times. All subordinate wolves look to
this Alpha for leadership and direction.
Domestication has not nullified in the dog this ardent need to lead or be
led. While dogs are light years distant from wolves in some respects, in
other matters they still mimic wolves closely -- especially in their need
for an Alpha figure to guide them -- and failing the presence of such a
guide, the chance to assume the position themselves. For your dog, there
should be absolutely no question as to who is the Alpha-figure in its
life. You are; or more accurately, you'd better be!
Trainers often express the above theories to their classes and private
clients in crude ways that accentuate the "control" the owner must gain to
be the "boss." Trainers will often say "Let him know who's boss!" and then
hand out a few folklore corrections to whatever problem is at hand.
Trouble is, just applying those few corrections--even if they do seem to
address the behavior problem at hand--will not, by itself, elevate the
wimpy owner to anything approximating Alpha-status in the naughty dog's
mind. In fact, the dog might rebel fiercely, getting into a dominance
fight with the owner. Or it might correct itself on one set of problems
(say, destructive chewing) and substitute another (marking in the house
instead of chewing). A few folklore corrections down the pike and the
owner is still not Alpha.
Often
a more holistic approach to bad behavior is called for--a literal
"hit-list" of changes that are imposed on the dog in order to rattle its
brains, disturb the status- quo and slot the owner in the starring role as
Ms. or Mr. Alpha once and for all. Little things add up--and just as it
was probably a plethora of little infractions, little slips, little forms
of naughtiness that allowed the situation between dog and owner to
deteriorate, it will be a series of little changes and renovations that
will bring the relationship back into sync and stop the problem behavior.
No Quick Fixes
If
you are the owner of a problem dog, please reflect on the above comments
before reading on. You probably would prefer a "quick-fix" solution in
this article--just one or two techniques that will cancel whatever
behavior problem you are now putting up with from your dog. I must say to
you: it's not that easy or that simple. Your problems with your dog, at
root, are relational. The dog probably fancies himself the Alpha. Or he
doesn't know who is. Or doesn't care. Or doesn't want to know. Whatever
the case, you're not it. You might be regarded as a friend, as a
companion, as a littermate, as a lover, or as all of the above, but you're
not regarded, at least not fully, as the Alpha. To grab that role, you
have to take a radical approach to your problem dog. I am going to suggest
different ruses you can pull to convince your pushy dog that you are the
boss.
This
more holistic approach is rather new in dealing with dog behavior problems
-- but not totally new. Until rather recently, trainers tended to hand out
1-2-3 remedies to behavioral inquiries, without addressing the underlying
malaise that affects the owner/dog relationship. Lately, there have been
some heartening efforts toward a more all-encompassing approach that helps
owners to identify problems and solve them, and restructure their
relationship with the dog. Carol Lea Benjamin's "Alpha Primer" (AKC
Gazette, September 1985) is an excellent example of this, as is the
chapter on behavior problems in Training Your Dog by Joachim Volhard and
Gail Fisher, (Howell Book House, 1984). Both programs are designed to help
you up your Alpha-status. My RRRR program (Radical Regime for Recalcitrant
Rovers) is simply, with my own personal flourishes--gathered from too many
years of experience with too many problem dogs and too many problem
owners. I offer my RRRR program to you with my sympathy and support.
Some
final tips before the hit-list: don't modify the program, and keep it up
until the behavior problem stops. Obviously, act on the behavior problem
itself using sensible and humane methods, but add the RRRR program if you
are experiencing any of the following:
- housetraining problems
- destructive chewing
- digging
- chasing people
- chasing cars
- jumping up
- over-barking
- growling/biting
- fighting with other dogs
- not coming when called
- predation
These
are all major behavioral problems and they call for a radical approach.
Besides specific corrections for the problem, apply the following program
for the dog which is exhibiting any of the above problems and apply it
today.
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Give your dog two obedience or trick training sessions a day practicing
whatever exercises the dog knows. These sessions should be 5 minutes
long. Do not praise physically during this session. Use only verbal
praise and keep the session moving. Give the commands quickly--dazzle
the dog.
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Have two formal eye contact sessions with your dogs each day. Problem
dogs look at their owners only when they feel like it. Up the eye
contact. Practice formally. Put a leash on. Sit the dog. Step around in
front and animate the dog saying, "Watch me--I want your attention right
now," in a low, growling tone of voice. Do not yell. You want three to
five seconds, (not minutes) of locked, sealed eye contact. Once you get
this moment, end with light verbal praise.
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Have your dog hold one 10-minute down each day. This is very important.
These downs can be done during TV shows, dinner, reading, etc. Enforce
it! If your dog doesn't know the down, teach it immediately, as well as
the stay command. For now, sit on the leash and measure out only as much
as the dog needs to hit the dust. If the dog jumps up on you, whip the
leash down hard with a "No !" If the dog stress-whines, give the dog a
slap under the chin and say "No !" If the dog bites on the leash, whip
it diagonally out of its mouth. During this time no petting, no toys, no
soothing, no nothing. Long downs make you look Alpha.
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Move your dog into the bedroom for overnight sleeping. Read the chapter
"Where is Your Dog This Evening?" in How To Be Your Dog's Best Friend by
the Monks of New Skete (Little, Brown and Co.). This simple exercise has
tremendous bonding effects. Remember--in the bedroom, problem dogs do
not belong on beds. You'll look like littermates--you want to be Alpha,
remember? If the dog jumps up on the bed, tie the dog to the foot of the
bed.
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Exercise is very important. Problem dogs usually don't get enough
aerobic, sustained exercise, which is what they need to calm them down.
Putting the dog out in the backyard for three hours is no solution--he
isn't exercising, he's exercising and resting, or just resting--period.
Use a leash and jog or run with your dog. Sometimes a bike can be used.
Keep moving. A good guide: for a little dog 1/4 mile with no stopping,
four times a week; for a medium-size dog 1/2 mile with no stopping, four
times a week; and for a large dog 1 mile with no stopping, four times a
week. I'm not even asking you to run with your dog every day. And a mile
can go by quite quickly. Obviously, if your veterinarian advises against
exercise for your particular dog, you'll have to skip this step.
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Whenever you leave home, leave the radio on--easy listening music, not
rock or talk shows. Stressed tones of voice usually keep dogs on
edge--and talk shows feature people who call in with problems and
stresses.
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Feed two times a day, if possible in the early morning and the early
afternoon. Place the food down and leave it 10-15 minutes. Leave the dog
and the food alone in a quiet room. Then, return and pick up the food
even if the dog hasn't finished. Do not make a "thing" out of the dog's
not eating--you may be engaging in faulty paralanguage and encouraging
the dog not to eat even as you try to get it to eat. This method of
feeding keeps food in the dog's stomach during its waking hours,
eliminating hunger tension and giving you more of a chance for a calmer
dog.
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Re-evaluate the diet--in my opinion high-quality meat meal-based rations
surpass soy-based rations. Drop all "people" food from the dog's diet.
The dogs know and it doesn't make you look Alpha. When your dog doesn't
have problems, you can slip in some people food but not now. Remember,
little things add up -- usually to big problems. And never, ever add
anything to the food after you've placed it down--not because you forgot
an ingredient, not because you want to encourage the dog to eat. The dog
will simply learn to wait until something yummy is added, and again, you
won't look Alpha.
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Give absolutely no food treats for one month. Yes, that's right, zero
treats. Zilch. None. Cold turkey. Owners often place themselves in a
subordinate position vis- a-vis the dog by giving too many treats or by
giving them in the wrong way. Stop for one month. If your dog's problems
clear up and the month has passed, give one treat a day only if the dog
sits. Never give a free treat carte blanche--make the dog do something
for the treat. But nothing for one month.
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Stop petting, stroking or fondling your problem dog for minutes, not to
mention hours, at a time. Get your hands off the dog and pet for only
seven to ten seconds and only if you've told the dog to "sit" or "down."
I know you love your dog, but love isn't enough. If it were, you
wouldn't be having the behavior problem you're having. What your dog
needs from you now to help him out of his behavioral jam is scratch-type
petting, quick and light, not seductive stroking. It would shock most
owners, but problem dogs are often pooped from petting--yet they oblige
and stay for it because they're addicted to it.
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Don't allow the dog to go before you in or out of a door. Make the dog
wait by giving the "wait" command, or at least go together. If you allow
the dog to barge in or out of the door before you, you're telling him
something pretty powerful about who controls the territory. The dog will
say, "I do--after all, I always go first and that wimp goes second." If
this happens three or four times a day, the dog really gets to stake a
claim to the territory he enters first, with ensuing problems. Quick
examples: dog is allowed to barge out onto the street and has a problem
fighting other dogs. Aren't you setting the stage for the fighting by
allowing the barge? Another: dog chews destructively when owner is not
home. If you routinely let the dog crash into the house before you,
aren't you telegraphing to him that the home is his territory--to chew
up, to trash, to "rearrange" at whim? Don't allow the dog to go before
you in or out of territory! Again--little things add up, usually to big
problems. If that phrase is beginning to sound like a mantra in this
article, I'm getting through.
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Pick up all the dog's toys and leave one, perhaps his favorite, down.
That's all he gets for one month. When a month passes and the problems
clear up, add one toy a week.
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Stop playing any and all tug-o-war games. When you let go you look
subordinate, and you're teaching the dog to bite down hard while in your
presence. You're okaying serious mouth play. A no-no for a problem dog.
Play only fetch and if the dog doesn't bring the object back to you and
release it, get up and walk away.
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If
you have to have the dog get up and move because he is in the way, make
the dog move. Don't refrain from doing something or stepping over the
dog because you don't want to bother him. If you're Alpha, you can go
where you want when you want. Even if you have to change the channel and
your dog is in front of the TV--make him move. Believe me, if you don't,
dogs notice. Little things add up.
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Resolve to stop yelling at your dog and instead speak in a low tone of
voice. If you yell, the dog will learn to wait for you to yell. Change
your tonality, not your volume. Most problem dogs are yelled and
screamed at. Most have tuned their owners out and learn to wait for
louder and louder yelling until they finally don't hear their owners at
all. You'll probably find you have to couple a physical correction with
your lowered tone of voice to get the dog to tune back to your station
on the dial -- Radio Station Alpha. So don't hesitate to use a shake, a
swat under the chin or a leash correction if necessary. But stop
yelling.
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If
your dog knows the "down" command--really knows it--pull a "surprise
down" on this problem dog once a week. For instance, you're in the
kitchen doing dishes and you hear Rover waltz in. Wheel on him, give
both the hand and vocal signal and command for "Down!" Recalcitrant
Rover will probably look shocked, and then do it. If not, you'll have to
enforce it. The surprise element is the key. Remember, just once a week.
Each down is a notch on your Alpha-belt, and combined with your daily
long downs you'll look like Eva Peron--which is how your dog needs to
see you right now.
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If
your dog is aggressive, immediately employ a qualified private trainer,
experienced with the Lhasa Apso, to work with you in your home. Please
don't wait. One session can work wonders. The situation could get out of
control. It certainly won't get better without training. Your dog is
just growling, you say? You're in trouble--big trouble. A growl is
a bite that just hasn't connected yet. Don't delude yourself.
Call a trainer -- yesterday! Institute the RRRR immediately, even before
the trainer gets there to tell you what to do specifically for the
aggression. You'll make his task easier if the RRRR is on a roll.
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Whatever the problem is, be sure you understand the corrections that are
outlined for you by your trainer or in the books you read. Apply those
techniques as well as the RRRR. You'll find that instituting the RRRR
rarely interferes with specific corrective techniques and almost always
aids them in effect. I've had many clients who did nothing about
specific problems such as chewing or aggression (usually because they
were too busy, too tired, or too scared to act on the problem itself)
but did begin the RRRR program--and the problem lessened and in some
cases disappeared. I won't promise you that, but you will find the RRRR
will greatly aid your specific corrections for whatever problem plagues
your dog.
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Finally, to balance the harshness of the RRRR program, create a little
jingle for your dog. The jingle can be based on a popular television ad,
and should be light, lilting and friendly -- sometimes just substituting
your dog's name where the product name was in the jingle will achieve
the desired effect. Sing the jingle to your dog once a day--even from
afar. I've used jingles from McDonald's ads and toothpaste ads. Just
sing it out to your dog once a day--and make eye contact--and don't go
over 10 seconds.
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